Monday, May 2, 2011

Mari berangan angan

Juz suatu rentetan dari blog FL yang Cik Lie rasa semua orang ade simpan angan-angan even kat mulut macam noble "tak kesah pun siape2, jodohkan Allah yang tentukan". For me, hipokrit la sangat~~ Tapi macam yang Cik Lie bagitau dulu, "once Allah open your heart to someone you never expected, that is your destiny and for your best." Berdoalah untuk dapat the best. Actually, most of the criteria listed by FL is for me also (semua perempuan nak yang macam tu kot...) Tapi Cik Lie nak tambah sikit la (Mak aih... lagi demand nampak???) hahha.. sukesuki my heart la. Juz to make difference supaya korang punye 'dream guy' tak same macam Cik Lie punye. I tak suka rebut-rebut tau =p


#A man who not control his lady#
Boleh bezakan antara mengambil berat & busy body? If kalau korang tak dapat bezakan, juz 1 clue nak bagi, kalau concern korang akan rasa korang selamat & dihargai oleh partner korang. Tapi kalau busybody korang akan rasa rimas & takut pada partner korang. Juz to remind myself also, the more you control your partner, the more they cheat on you. Tak caye, try test tengok. hehhe.. Trust & honest itu SANGAT penting okey.. Sebab tu Cik Lie sangat suka if my friends is yours and your friends is mine. Kan best camtu =)

#A silence man#

Jangan tak caye, even Cik Lie jenis potpetpotpet & huhahuha, I prefer silence man. Why? Ntah, maybe nampak lebih macho & nampak bijak kot. =p Tapi orang kata silence man ni lebih dangerous because we can't read their mind. emm.. but, the most important is ikatan kimia (chemistry) yang wujud between 2 elements. Lagipun Cik Lie jenis yang tak reti bergaduh & berhujah. So, tiap kali kena marah or kene lecture, sure mulut Cik Lie automatically akan shut down. Owh...my biggest weakness actually~~~ So, nak tambah lagi, I prefer soft spoken man ;)


#A man do not smoke#
Memang Cik Lie cannot go la ngan mereka yang ade darah 'dragon' ni. Tak kesahlah, even hisap rokok mahal ke, rokok murah ke tak pun syisha. Big NO ok.. Kesian pada orang sekeliling yang terima kesan yang sama dengan si dragon ni. Pernah ade seseorang berkata pada Cik Lie (ayat pancing maybe) after he get married, he swear to himself & his mum to stop smoking. Cik Lie juz senyum sinis je~~ Bukan tak caye, juz sssuuuusssaahhh nak caye.

#A man who love his family#

Bukanlah Cik Lie kata Cik Lie suka 'anak mak'. Juz Cik Lie sangat respect pada lelaki yang mendahului family die more than himself because in future he will protect your family. Maybe something annoying when we see adik beradik ni sakan komen-komen kat dalam FB sedangkan duduk 1 rumah. Pernah Cik Lie tengok 1 status tu "bisingnye bunyi anjing menyalak". Si adik komen, " abg jgn lupe kunci pintu dapur", pastu si abg reply, "jgn lupa tutup tv. kang bil tinggi". For me it is really sweet =) (tp ade org ckp, itulah bahana internet sebab dah takde face to face communication, anggap je lah time tu dah tengah malam, sorang bilik atas, sorang bilik bawah. hehhehe). Cik Lie pernah terbaca, bagi seorang wanita, once you married a man, you have to married his family too. So, for me it is really good if his family can accept you and love you as their sister too (more than juz sister in law) because they will feel their brother choose the best one to attach with their family.

#A man who can lead#

Honestly speaking, I have a big responsible towards my family and myself to be shouldered. So, I need someone who is brave, intelligence, mature and lovely to share my happiness and tears. I don't need dictator to devote my self & my child forever.

Wahhh..ini sudah lebey ni. Kalau nak 100% perfect camni, Cik Lie memang kena ready with title 'andartu' la. Serve your right la kan =p Tapi tak salah kan kita mengharapkan yang baik-baik. Semuanya depends on ourselves. Ingat, kalau kita baik, sure Allah akan lindungi dari orang yang tak baik. Tak kesah lah lambat pun. (Juz kena bertabah sikit lah, huhuhu). To all, moga kita semua dapat pasangan yang baik dan mulia. Amin... =)